Wednesday, March 11, 2015

Everyone has problems

Everyone has problems,  sometimes they feel they need to talk about it. Sometimes when they do talk about it, they talk to the listener as if they are someone who is responsible for the problem. I understand why, and it doesn't bother me. I consider it to be a type of role play.
You will play you, and I will play the asshole you are pissed off at.... And ACTION!
The message comes out to me but it wont be coming out to the person who needs to hear it. But now, atleast you got out some of the anger and verbal agression that could cause more conflict, and now that it has bee "rehearsed" you can sum it up into less and less hurtful words and disscuss it like adults later when the heat isn't at the boiling point. But, some topics are just not easy to talk about under any surcamstances. Some topics are just an instant switch from good mood to bad mood. For me, It's religion. I don't like to talk about it, and I don't want to hear about it either. But, I respect that my families and friends beleive in what they want, and I will not try to sway them to or from it. It works for some, but I feel it doesn't work for me. If I can respect you in your beleifs, I'd expect you to respect me with mine. That's the Short, generic version.

Anyway, I do hate to see people in trouble because its sad to see good people with such struggles. I'd love to help everyone, but unfortunatly it cant be done.
Some people don't want to talk about it, and that's cool too. I like to talk about things that bother me, and I'm one of those "Role play" types who take it out on the person im talking to. (Sorry by the way) But when no one is around, I use my webcam and let'er rip. I have had rants that went on for 45 minutes, and there were no interuptions, no questions, nothing. Just me venting and letting off some steam. It's better than keeping it bottled up and exploding on someone later who doesn't deserve that wrath.
Oh goodness. Fewer and fewer things are stopping me from smacking some people's faces for the things they do and say. My business is my business. Not anyone else's.