Quick thought on Ladies.

Thought of this during a class with absolutly nothing to do with it:

When (most) women say they are looking for a good man, typicaly, this is what i think happens in that thought process could be like  this...
As a child, our love maps are imprinted into our minds- which if im understanding correctly, A man falls in love with a woman like his mother or mother-like figure, and women fall in love with men like their father or father-like figure. In some instances, it could be a sibling as well. An example, I notice similarities between my wife's brother and myself. Similar, not exact.
He and I use the same shower gel, or body spray, have difficulty combing a cowlick-
These things in a way make her more comfortable, because shes used to the smells of the body spray and showergel, and growling in the mirror because that little bit of hair wont stay down no matter what you do to it.

I noticed that my wife have similar qualities of my mother, and my step-mother.
I didnt notice this stuff right away, but i did, and found it odd that it was attractive.
I think it was Freud who made that connection first.

So in a sense, when a woman tells you she wants a quality man, shes loooking for a guy who has similar traits to her "love map" relationship. If her dad stuck around, shes expecting a man to do just that. If her brother cooked dinner on sunday night, she might like that.

Women are complex.
When you dont know what they are looking for.